Where is your focus?
Is it on worrying about what people think of you?
That other coaches and experts do your “thing” better than you?
If this type of thinking is draining you and making you feel you’re not in control of your life, how about changing direction?
Simply switch your focus to things that you can control to quickly yield you positive breakthroughs in your business.
Watch this 3-minute video to see how.
To your magnificence,
Nina x
When are you going to be happy? When you land a new client, have a successful launch, book a speaking gig?
Why put off being happy at some point in the future when you experience it NOW?
Watch this 3-minute video to see how you can feel happy right now and embrace a whole new world of amazing opportunities.
To your magnificence,
Nina x
I want to share an inspiring story I came across recently that made a huge impression on me.
It’s a story of unbelievable courage which proves that it’s not what happens that matters, it’s how you deal with it that truly matters.
Wendy Mitchell was diagnosed with dementia in 2014. It’s steadily robbed her of her brilliant memory, but thankfully, not her ability to write down her thoughts.
This was Wendy’s reaction to her diagnosis:
“I was determined to choose a positive path. It signalled the loss of me… but, more importantly, it signalled the birth of the new me, a new chance. I feel I’ve gained more than I lost.”
Wendy has created and embraced countless new opportunities including becoming part of committees and research groups, speaking all over the country to influence change to help other dementia sufferers. And Julianne Moore invited her to tea before the premier of Still Alice, in which she played the role of a woman who develops early Alzheimers.
Wendy wrote: “None of these wonderful opportunities would have entered the radar of the very private me pre-diagnosis – I’m not sure I would have had the courage. Every day we make decisions about the ways we live our lives, and that decision – be it small or large- can be the difference between what makes you and what breaks you when faced with the challenges that come our way.“
Wendy had a choice. She chose that dementia wasn’t going to limit her. Instead, she purposefully chose to expand her mindset to live her life on her terms, inspite of all the daily challenges and setbacks.
Living your life with deliberate intent no matter what is going on in your life takes extraordinary inner power and focus. Fortunately, we all have these in bucketfuls.
Are you using your extraordinary inner power and focus to deliberately create and embrace incredible new opportunities so you can live with purpose and passion?
Or are you like a wind being tossed around like a leaf, reacting haphazardly to whatever is going on around you, feeling out of control and overwhelmed?
It’s your choice. Make it count.
To your magnificence,
Nina x
Are you innocently limiting your vision by thinking small?
You get to decide how big you think, because it’s your life and you don’t want to limit your happiness and success do you?
Watch this 3-minute video to find out how to think BIG about what’s possible for you.
It’s easier than you think 🙂
To your magnificence,
Nina x
Hi Reader,
Are you giving your business everything you’ve got and it’s still not working?
But you can’t figure out why?
Stop for a minute and take this free quick quiz to see if you’ve got this Limiting Money Belief.
If you have, It’s stopping you from earning any more money because it’s blocking you.
Do you want to know what this debilitating Limiting Money Belief is?
And if you have it?
Ready?
Let’s do it.
Say out loud: It’s a struggle to make money.
Give it a number out of 10 – the more you agree with the statement – It’s a struggle to make money – the higher the number out of 10.
Here’s the secret to getting the true number for this Limiting Money Belief.
Don’t let your rational mind give you the answer. It’ll argue, negotiate, the ego will get involved.
Instead, let your gut, your intuition float the answer up to you. Your subconscious knows the true answer, your conscious mind doesn’t.
What number did you get out of 10?
If you got a 2 or above, you have the Limiting Belief, It’s a struggle to make money.
If you got a 5 or more, this is a powerful Limiting belief for you. This belief will continue to limit how much money you can attract, until you do something about it.
What can you do about it?
Remove this Limiting Money Belief permanently from your subconscious so you never think or feel it ever again. And replace it with a new empowering Belief eg. It’s easy to make money, money flows to me.
Can you imagine what that will free you up to do and be?
If you have this 5+ It’s a struggle to make money Limiting Belief, and you know a new empowered belief is all that’s standing between you and your big breakthrough, apply for “Your Magnificent Success” Session.
Together we’ll clarify how you can start attracting more money, define your vision of success and identify what’s really stopping you from achieving it. And I’ll show you how to create a life full of wonderful possibilities.
Warmly,
Nina x
Remember how excited you were when you decided to start your own business?
You were going to be the boss… make your own decisions… Finally focus on work YOU love to do… And best of all, you were going to change lives!
Do you still feel that way? Hopefully, you do. But, with the hustle of getting clients, marketing your services and making money, it’s easy to fall into worry.
I’ve noticed that my clients waste oodles of time worrying about their business.
Constant worrying is exhausting, isn’t it? AND it’s blocking more abundance flowing into your business.
There’s only one thing that causes you to worry, and it’s pretty easy to solve.
Watch this 3-minute video to immediately stop worrying so you can start to attract more success.
To your magnificence,
Nina x
Have you ever had a great idea about a smart strategy you could do that will grow your business? Maybe the idea is to record a video or reach out to a high level business owner for a partnership.
And then you think, “Oh no, there’s no way I can do that!”
There’s more going on beneath the surface of your awareness. Debilitating thoughts like “What if people don’t like it? I’ll be publicly humiliated!”
Then you tell yourself, “I’m not going to do it. It’s not that important. I’ll do it someday, but not today.”
And your business doesn’t grow…
Ever been there, done that?
What you’re experiencing is the fear of being rejected. It feels humiliating and painful.
You may even feel like a fraud, scared you’re going to get found out one day that you’re not really very good at what you do.
Where do these fears come from?
Not from prospects. Not even the prospects who say No to working with you.
These fears don’t come from the more successful business owner who may reject your connection request.
And they don’t come from hurtful comments you might receive to your blog post.
No, none of your fears come from the outside world, from people and events.
They come from within you.
You’ve innocently made them up and you believe they’re real and true. In fact, you’ve got stacks of evidence to prove they’re true about you.
And you’re living your life accordingly, getting great business building ideas and then rejecting them.
If this strategy is working for you and making you feel happy and fulfilled, then great, you’re on the right track.
However, If you thinking, “I can’t keep doing this, I’m just not happy, I’ve got to find a way through this”, then try this instead…
When you’re dragging yourself to your desk, dreading the day ahead, convinced nothing you do is going to work, say these magic words:
“It’s just my thinking making me feel like this, it’s not real, it’s not true, I made this stuff up in my head.”
This will immediately stop the negative chatter and put you back into your default state of wellbeing. Because you’re glimpsing the truth of who you really are. It will become clear that your fears… are just stories that you innocently made up in your head.
Try it, it’s super simple, it’s super quick and it works, I do it all the time and it snaps me back into calmness and focus to get on and do stuff without the fear kicking in and stopping me in my tracks.
Let me know how you get on. I read every response 🙂
If you want to find out which fears are stopping you from playing full out (they can be removed permanently!), and you’d like to create more passion and purpose, then let’s schedule a time to talk.
Warmly,
Nina x
Do you dread strategy calls? Will you do anything to avoid a “No thanks”?
How would it be if you could add huge value in every sales call so you can get more “Yeses”?
Watch this 2-minute video to take the fear out of sales calls.
To your magnificence,
Nina x
You know when you have a sales call and your prospect says,”I’ll think about it”? When your offer is turned down, what do you do?
Do you get off the call and think, “Yes! I did it, I got a No! I’m getting more and more skilled at these calls, and every No takes me closer to a Yes!”
OR
Do you think, “I’m such a loser, no one’s ever going to pay me that much, this isn’t ever going to work.”
If you’re going down the “I’m a loser” route, then listen up.
Deep down, you know this already, but there’s no harm in reminding you.
You think it’s losing the sale that is sending you spinning in a negative loop, setting you back for days or even weeks.
But here’s what’s really going on.
All that’s happened is the prospect chose not to buy. That’s it. Full Stop.
It doesn’t mean you haven’t got what it takes and you’re never going to make it.
What’s actually making you lose confidence is that you’re taking a beating – from your damaging inner talk.
This is stuff that you’re innocently making up. It’s sabotaging your success which is there, ready and waiting for you to grab it by the collar.
Once you can get out of your own way.
The first step is to uncover your mind gremlins.
The second step is to replace them with new empowering beliefs that will skyrocket your confidence.
And the third step is to take confidence-brimming, aligned action that will result in a steadily increasing income (without working harder),
If you’re ready to start doing it the easier way, then it’s time for us to chat.
To your magnificent success,
Nina x
Do you feel you’re not smart enough, that you don’t know enough to help your clients?
Do you worry you’ll get found out and be humiliated?
If this is you, then this thinking is stopping you from getting more clients because you’re using this as an excuse not to market your services.
Watch this 3-minute video to breakthrough this block so you can step into your expert status and serve more people.
To your magnificence,
Nina x